Going All In
Sep 08, 2021
Are you “straddling the fence” on committing to dating and finding your person?
Admitting to yourself and the universe that you’re ready and want to find love is FUCKING SCARY!
I can feel the anxiety for you just writing that last sentence!
Straddling the fence…waiting for the perfect time, for you to be "perfect", and being stuck in indecision - that all feels way safer to us that COMMITTING & GOING ALL IN on finding our person.
You’re not risking failure when you’re stuck in indecision.
It is funny, and sometimes really not-so-funny, how much building my coaching practice is like dating.
I hired a virtual assistant last week to help me with all the fancy snazzy IG stuff that I don’t know how to do and frankly don’t want to learn.
Yep, I’m a stubborn & technically challenged old lady. 👵🏼
BUT, to find my people, the woman I want to help ROCK DATING - SLAY SELF LOVE - & FIND THEIR MAN (or woman, or person) - I need to learn to work the IG system to get in front of these wonderful women.
Tuesday morning came, virtual assistant kickoff meeting - & I woke up feeling possibly more anxious than I felt when I started dating and the first guy I liked wasn’t asking me out for a fourth date. 😫😖😣😳
Anxiety was pulsing through me from my calves to my scalp!
It felt AWFUL!
I admitted it to her and we had a good laugh. I HIRED HER. I’m paying her to HELP ME. And it still made me anxious because it was me putting another stake in the ground for myself, my business, and my dream. It was me admitting to myself and the universe, once again, I’m ALL IN ON THIS.
Next morning - woke up all kinds of crazy anxious AGAIN! So I took a long walk and thought about it, and did some self coaching. I realized this is perfect and serves me and my people - because not only have I gone through ALLLL the mind drama of dating and finding my hubby, I’m CHOOSING to do the same thing again by making my dream coaching business a reality!
I’m putting myself out there to be judged, disliked, and rejected.
And I’m doing this because its worth it to me to find my loves, aka, my clients.
It’s worth it to me to be so vulnerable - but it’s still FUCKING UNNNNNCOMFORTABLE at times!
I’m risking failure! But, I’m not. Because I know I will keep at this until I figure it out and make it work. I will keep doing, and trying, and learning, and making mistakes, and celebrating wins until I create the coaching practice of my dreams.
I’M ALL IN! And I’m trusting myself to have my own back when I have the inevitable screw ups, embarrassments, rejection and failures.
SO - if you want a coach who is still a hot anxious mess at times. Who found love and created the relationship of her dreams in spite of her anxious messy mind, waves of insecurity, and storms of self doubt - I’m your gal!
Bring all your crazy - I GOT YOU! We’ll get you your love!
