Starving Your Fashion

Do you Starve your fashion?

I do.

My client, @ kt1215, was getting ready for a fab, and much deserved, beachy vacay in Florida and found a great vibrant cobalt blue tube dress - perfection for rocking the sand and sun! 🏝☀️

But then her brain was all like-
GGGurrrllll, have you seen your arms?
Not to mention that stomach.
I wouldn’t be wearing that if I were you.
Just saying…friend to friend…just trying to help you…
Love,
Your Bitchy Brain.

She called it “starving your fashion”

I know I am SO guilty of fashion starving myself too. SO SO SO GUILTY

I get ‘lazy’ about dressing up.

I decide to just wear yoga clothes to just about EVERYTHING DAMN THANG.

I WEIGHT to buy new clothes.

I wear the same boring thing over and over and over and over and over again….

My Bitchy Mean Girl Brains tells me thing like- listen lady, you need to earn it. You need to deserve it.

“Here is where you are📍, and WEIGH WEIGH WEIGH over here📍is where you need to be in order to be WORTHY & DESERVING of love/acceptance/celebration/care/adoring/new jeans👖…”

“I’d just be wasting money on you and encouraging this UNACCEPTABLE STATE OF AFFAIRS! Pffffff!”

“You will be PUNISHED until you fix this shit, Missy!”

"Until you…..{insert your self love criteria and conditions here}…no loves for you!"

YUCK! My brain can be such mean girl bitch!

Yet I let my brain do it AND BELIEVE HER SOMETIMES! 🤯 WTF!!!

Our lovableness. Our fabulousness. Our amazingness. Our beauty. Our worthinesses IS NOT TO BE STARVED.

We are to be celebrated. Loved. Adored. Cared for. Snuggled. Held tight to. ESPECIALLY BY OURSELVES.

I double dog dare you to go do something for yourself that you brain is telling you don’t deserve yet. What are you weighting for?

Don’t weight your whole life to love yourself & fully live it. And let’s stop letting our bitchy mean girl brains run the show! If this post struck a chord with you - let’s chat. 💋

(PS - I never share information like this about a client without their full written consent!)