Stop Blaming Your Parents

blame energy family parent Apr 22, 2021

I won the lottery on mommas. 🀸🏻‍♀️

My mom is smart, well read, vivacious, opinionated, spunky, energetic, and eats up life!

She is 75 and still CRUSHING life!

She lives life more fully than a lot of the people I know my own age.

She dances Salsa & Bachata for 4 hours 3+ times a week.

She is a force.

AND SHE IS MY MOM.

AND….she loves to tell me what to do, what to wear, where to cross the street, what to buy on amazon.

The woman has LOTS OF IDEAS, LOADS OF ADVICE, AND LOVES ME DEARLY.

Before I got coaching and became more aware of my thoughts, I blamed her for my weight.

I made her opinions and advice mean things about me - that I should be different or do things differently.

When actually, she was just being her.

She is just a woman who has tons of ideas.

She is just a woman who loves to give advice to the people she loves in hopes of making their lives better & easier.

And she is a woman who loves to control things so she can feel calm.

COUGH COUGH - WHO THE EFF READING THIS DOESN'T TRY TO CONTROL SITUATIONS OR PEOPLE IN HOPES TO FEEL A CERTAIN WAY?????

NONE OF US - THAT’S WHO!

Over the past three years of being a coach, I have NEVER EVER EVER EVER coached a person without a mommy or daddy issue.

I’ve coached entrepreneurs, executives, students, mid-level managers, creatives…you name it - EVERYONE HAD A MOMMY OR DADDY ISSUE.

Everyone. Single. One.

We are human = we blame our parents for some sh*t.

Want to learn how to let go of the energy around a parent so you can put all that energy into creating your dream life?

Let’s get you the AMAZING KICK-ASS SEXY CONNECTED BEYOND YOUR WILDEST DREAMS LOVE!

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