A Closer Look at Your Dating Preferences

Want a guy over six feet tall?

Listen to this. 

14% of men in the United States are over six feet tall. 58% of CEOs in the United States are over six feet tall.

Interesting, right?

We as a society value and give status to men who are six feet or taller.

And I just want to offer you that height does not make a better partner or CEO.

You are eliminating 85% of the dating pool by only dating six feet or taller.

Some of us have some insecurities about feeling more feminine if they're taller, or we don't want to feel bigger than them or it's easier for us to feel smaller with a taller guy.

Just get curious about your preferences and what's behind them.

You get to prefer whatever you prefer AND it is valuable to look under the hood of our preferences to get increased awareness and understanding.

You don’t have to change your preference once you have more awareness.

Once you SEE the thought/belief YOU GET TO CHOOSE ON PURPOSE if it serves your goal of finding love and if you want to keep it.

Or if you care enough to work on changing it.

ITS ALL UP TO YOU! YOUR LIFE. YOUR RELATIONSHIP. YOUR CHOICE.

And note 📝:

📐Someone’s height does not make us feel sexy, or feminine, or small, or tiny, or slender, or cuter… OUR THOUGHTS ABOUT IT DO.

📐Nothing outside of us makes us feel a certain way - OUR THOUGHTS about that thing and the MEANING WE ATTACH to it causes our feelings.

📐A guy who is taller than you may make it EASIER for you to have those thoughts and that can be reason enough for you to keep your preference.

📐Your thoughts about his height are still the real cause of your feelings.

My suggestion:
🧐Take a look under the hood of your preferences to understand where they’re coming from
👍🏼Keep whatever preference you prefer to keep
❤️There are no good/bad or right/wrong preferences - just like your reasons, decide on purpose to pick them AND go rock your love goals!

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